{"id":101843,"date":"2022-10-27T15:09:55","date_gmt":"2022-10-27T19:09:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/?post_type=article&#038;p=101843"},"modified":"2025-11-07T13:28:58","modified_gmt":"2025-11-07T18:28:58","slug":"how-can-connecting-with-others-help-my-mental-health","status":"publish","type":"article","link":"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/how-can-connecting-with-others-help-my-mental-health\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfC\u00f3mo puede ayudar a mi salud mental conectar con otras personas?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Your friend gets your joke. Your coworker offers congrats. Your spouse hugs you hello. They are all helping you bust stress and boost well-being. Often, people turn to loved ones in times of stress. And as human beings, we all want to feel supported, valued, and connected.<\/p>\n<h2>How connections help<\/h2>\n<p>Connections with other people are good for our mental health and well-being. Sometimes this means a heart-to-heart, spill-it-all-out talk. Or sometimes it&#8217;s just a funny text or meme. And there are benefits of social connection like increased happiness and living a longer, healthier life.\u00a0 No matter how we connect with others, it helps us improve our health, stress, and overall quality of life.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Finding a solid friend group has improved my mental health by helping me know that there are other people out there that share my sense of humor, interests, and way of thinking.<\/p>\n<footer>Leigh, 41<\/footer>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2>Creating connections with the people in our lives<\/h2>\n<p>We know that having and creating connections is good for us. <a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/i-dont-feel-i-belong-anywhere\/\">It isn\u2019t always easy to do<\/a>, but we make connections in more ways than we realize. For example, connections with others happen when we get:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Concrete help<\/strong> like having a friend takes notes for you when you miss school<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emotional support<\/strong> like hearing someone say, &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry you&#8217;re having a tough time.\u201d<\/li>\n<li><strong>Perspective<\/strong> like being reminded that your feelings right now are not your feelings forever<\/li>\n<li><strong>Advice<\/strong> like a suggestion to plan to take time each week to care for yourself<\/li>\n<li><strong>Validation<\/strong> like learning that other folks love reading the same things that you do<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Often we have these connections with <a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/who-can-i-talk-to-about-my-mental-health\/\">people who support us<\/a>\u2014like family, loved ones, friends, and others who we trust. These are the people who make us feel comfortable.\u00a0They make us feel safe and we feel like we could tell them anything. They take our concerns seriously and help us work through our problems. And they make us feel valued, loved and that we matter.<\/p>\n<h2>Strengthening our current connections<\/h2>\n<p>At times we may become disconnected from the people in our lives. This is normal and happens throughout our lives as things change. But there are <a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/just-checking-friends\/\">ways to reconnect and strengthen the relationships<\/a> you have:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Make a list of the people you want to contact regularly. If necessary, add a reminder to your calendar.<\/li>\n<li>Commit to a certain amount of time together each day, week, or month without distractions.<\/li>\n<li>Listen actively. Repeat what you heard to make sure you understood.<\/li>\n<li>Ask for what you need. Though it may feel they can, our loved ones can&#8217;t read our minds, so we have to tell them what we need.<\/li>\n<li>Show how much you respect, support, and appreciate your friends and family. You may <em>think<\/em> positive thoughts, but <em>sharing<\/em> them works wonders.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s easier than we think to <a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/how-do-i-give-love-to-others\/\">rebuild a connection<\/a> that we thought we lost. Other times, it may take a bit more effort.<\/p>\n<h2>Relationship troubles<\/h2>\n<p>If you&#8217;re in a difficult relationship (romantic or otherwise), working on it may help. There are steps that we can take like considering the others&#8217; feelings, focusing on what we value about them, and staying constructive. But this doesn\u2019t always stop fighting and disagreements. If disagreements get intense, remember to fight fair. Two good ways to do this are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Avoid over-generalizing.<\/strong> Beware of statements like, &#8220;You never pay attention to me.&#8221; Instead, make specific requests like, <em>&#8220;Could we spend an hour together soon?&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n<li><strong>Avoid finger-pointing.<\/strong> Instead of blaming the other person, focus on how you feel with an &#8220;I&#8221; statement such as, <em>&#8220;I feel upset when you come home and get on your phone.&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When appropriate, try to forgive, but remember that forgiving doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re saying the behavior was acceptable. Sometimes <a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/8-signs-of-an-emotionally-abusive-relationship\/\">a relationship makes us feel unsafe<\/a>. It may lower our self-esteem or draw us into unhealthy habits. A bad relationship can hurt you even more than a good one can help you. In this case, the best thing that you can do is leave.<\/p>\n<h2>Making friends and creating new connections<\/h2>\n<p>Sometimes, the people in our lives don\u2019t provide the support we need. And we may need to take steps to make new friends and connections.\u00a0 Some ways to do this include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Enroll in a class<\/strong> <strong>that interests you<\/strong>. You&#8217;ll know your classmates already share a common interest and\u00a0 can start a conversation.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Join a book group, hiking club, or other group.<\/strong> If you want to make your entry smoother, consider contacting the group&#8217;s leader in advance.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Volunteer.<\/strong> Working together builds bonds, and <a href=\"https:\/\/mhanational.org\/blog\/10-ways-to-volunteer-your-time-for-mental-health\/\">helping others<\/a> has its own rewards.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Reach out\u2014a lot. <\/strong>Especially if you&#8217;re in a completely new situation, like starting college or a <a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/im-nervous-about-new-job\/\">new job<\/a> or going to a new school. You may need to meet lots of people before finding some that suit you.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Joining a support group. <\/strong>If you&#8217;re facing a particular stress, like a serious illness, you may want to get additional support beyond what your friends and family can offer. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/support-groups\/\">Grupos de apoyo<\/a><\/strong> can provide information, <a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/what-does-peer-support-look-like\/\">apoyo entre pares<\/a>, a reminder that you&#8217;re not alone, and inspiration from seeing others coping with similar issues.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Having meaningful connections with others is important to your overall well-being. But for people <a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/content\/what-anxiety\/\">living with anxiety<\/a>, it can be hard to reach out and connect with others. If you believe that you are experiencing symptoms of anxiety, consider <a href=\"https:\/\/screening.mhanational.org\/es\/screening-tools\/anxiety\/\">taking our anxiety test<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your friend gets your joke. Your coworker offers congrats. Your spouse hugs you hello. They are all helping you bust stress and boost well-being. Often, people turn to loved ones in times of stress. And as human beings, we all want to feel supported, valued, and connected. 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