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Asexual<\/strong>, or \u201cace<\/strong>,\u201d generally describes someone who doesn\u2019t experience sexual attraction or want a sexual relationship. Like most sexualities and labels, asexuality is a spectrum. <\/span>Some asexual people may prefer the term \u201cgray-ace\u201d\u2014experiencing sexual attraction very rarely or with very low intensity<\/span>. <\/span>Others prefer the term \u201cdemisexual\u201d, or experiencing sexual attraction only after forming an emotional bond with someone<\/span>. And other asexual people may prefer something else. <\/span>No matter what you prefer, all ace and ace-spectrum individuals are valid members of the LGBTQ+ community<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

We know that LGBTQ+ individuals are more than twice as likely as their non-LGBTQ+ counterparts to have a mental health condition<\/a><\/span>. But minimal research has focused on the mental health needs of the asexual community. Ace-spectrum people may face unique challenges.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What Are Some Common Mental Health Challenges In The Asexual Community?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Uncertainty And Self-Doubt<\/span><\/h3>\n

The lack of visibility around asexuality can make it hard to realize that you’re asexual. It’s common to first know something about you is different from many of your peers. But not realize that it’s a completely normal and valid identity that others share. This can lead to self-questioning: <\/span>If sex is natural, am I broken? Can I really be like this, or is something wrong with me?<\/em><\/p>\n

You’re not broken and nothing’s wrong with you. And it can help to hear that from people who have been in your shoes. <\/span>Do some research and find articles, books, or even social media posts written by asexual people about their journey<\/span>. If you don’t know where to start, <\/span>www.asexuality.org<\/span><\/a>\u00a0has some great resources.<\/span><\/p>\n

Imposter syndrome<\/span><\/h3>\n

Many LGBTQ+ folks deal with imposter syndrome. <\/span>Or feeling like a fraud about their sexuality, especially soon after coming to terms with a label that feels best<\/span>. <\/span>If you identify as asexual, going through a more sexual phase or engaging in sex with a certain person may make you question your identity<\/span>. <\/span>If you’re asexual and heteroromantic\u2014<\/span>romantically<\/span> attracted to the <\/span>biologically<\/span> opposite sex or gender\u2014you might feel like you can’t take up space in the LGBTQ+ community<\/span>. You can! Labels <\/span>are meant<\/span> to serve you. You don’t have to force a label that doesn’t feel right.\u00a0 And it’s okay if what feels right changes over time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Struggling to fit in<\/span><\/h3>\n

Some ace folks may feel like they’re unable to connect with peers, particularly during puberty, college, or early adulthood<\/span>. At certain life stages, it can feel like sex is the only thing your peers care about. There also can be a lot of pressure to talk about people you find attractive or want to be physical with. Navigating this as someone who is asexual can be confusing and uncomfortable.\u00a0<\/span> Maybe<\/span> you fake your way through the conversations to fit in but end up feeling disconnected from your true self<\/span>. Or <\/span>maybe<\/span> you don’t engage in talk about sex and find yourself left out of social circles.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Try to connect with other asexual and LGBTQ+ folks. You can do this through community events, dating apps, online groups<\/a> on social media or meetup.com. <\/span>Over time, <\/span>being involved<\/span> in the community will likely introduce you to new people who are also asexual<\/span>. This can help reduce feelings of loneliness and help protect your mental health.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anxiety<\/span><\/h3>\n

Acknowledging that your sexuality is different than you thought\u2014and different than the “norm”\u2014can be difficult<\/span>. This is especially so for asexual individuals living in a sex-focused culture. You might wonder about what this means for your dating and social lives. It can be stressful to figure out when to tell people you go on dates with and how they’ll respond.<\/span><\/p>\n

Think about what feels best to you.\u00a0<\/span> If telling people you’re asexual before you go on a date helps relieve some anxiety about their reaction, then go for it<\/span>. If it doesn’t, then there’s no need to bring it up until the time feels right. Feeling prepared can also help you reduce anxiety. <\/span>Consider what you want to say, their possible reactions, and how to handle any negativity or harassment<\/span>. Remember: Your sexuality and identity are your own, and you get to decide how and when you talk about them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lack of c<\/span>ulturally<\/span> relevant care<\/span><\/h3>\n

The scientific community now acknowledges\u00a0asexuality as a variation in human sexuality rather than a sexual or mental health disorder<\/span>. <\/span>But many providers are still ill-informed when it comes to working with the asexual community<\/span>. <\/span>It’s not uncommon for health care providers to attribute someone’s asexuality to an underlying health condition<\/span>. This is invalidating and often <\/span>drives those individuals away from continuing care [1]<\/span>. <\/span>Seeking out LGBTQ+-competent doctors and\u00a0<\/span>therapists<\/span><\/a>\u00a0can help ensure that you’re getting care from providers who understand your needs<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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While no sexuality or gender identity indicates a mental health condition, the LGBTQ+ community is at great risk for mental health challenges due to societal attitudes<\/span>. And\u00a0<\/span>asexual people report more everyday discrimination and stigma [2]<\/span>\u00a0than non-asexual LGB people. <\/span>If your mental health is making it difficult to live the life you want, then consider taking a mental health test<\/a>.\u00a0 For more information on LGBTQ+ mental health, check out Mental Health America’s LGBTQ+ resource hub<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Show References<\/a><\/p>\n

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  1. Flanagan & Peters. (2020). Asexual-Identified Adults: Interactions with Health-Care Practitioners. Archives of Sexual Behavior 49<\/em>, 1631-1643. Retrieved from https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/s10508-020-01670-6<\/a><\/li>\n
  2. Rothblum et al. (2020). Asexual and Non-Asexual Respondents from a U.S. Population-Based Study of Sexual Minorities. Archives of Sexual Behavior 49<\/em>, 757-767. Retrieved from https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1007\/s10508-019-01485-0<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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